Year End Party

One thing about my wifey, he doesn't like to celebrate Christmas. Not that he doesn't like this holiday but it kinda sound like Christian's affair with their God, and he is not a christian, so he doesn't like to celebrate Christmas :)

Instead, he celebrates yearly with his sisters whom now i know as either GFF or BFF, "Year End Party". This YEP, not Youth Expedition Programme, it's Year End Party ok??, is always organised by him and his partner-in-crime Sri. A sweet young lady, slightly over-weight and horizontally challenged... but nice lady... They always call is Sheri's and Sri's Year End Party.

Last year, 2007, is the first time i joined wifey and Sri for their YEP. It was really fun... below is the whole process to the best of my memories :)



One Week Before
Wifey was getting excited about the party and started to send sms-es to remind his friends to reserve themselves free on that day. However, he was also kinda worried cos still cannot confirm the place. Initially was suppose to be Sri's cousin house but kinda not sure can confirm or not. Then also wifey is very particular on food and was looking around internet and other places to order the food.

One thing about wifey, he is never stingy when it comes to friends. He does not mind to pay more and buy more food, rather than not enough. I really love him at this point as that really shows his characteristics. If he can treat his friends with so much concern and love, I know one day he will be able do that for me too, even not as much but won't be too far off. After all his policies is Family 1st, Friends 2nd, Sleeping 3rd and Hubby 4th... so i am still not that far off :)

Well, the excitment never dies off throughout the week. Wifey was constantly busy also coordinating this and that as wifey is quite a perfectionist, hahaha... luckily i can take it so I still love wifey very very much :)

The other issue wifey got is his work schedule. Basically the party was at night and the plan was to go clubbing after that so he cannot work night shift. His kakis in CGH who are invited also cannot work night shift. So it's kind of a hassle to arrange and exchange duties. But everything was sort out at the end :)



One Day Before
The place at Sri's cousin house is not available. My workplace was chosen as there is no other possible places to hold the YEP. Wifey and Sri came down and took a tour around my workplace to see how to have it done. It was confirmed soon that we will use the dance studio to host the party while my office will be used privately solely for me and wifey as changing room and store-room :)

The final arrangement was for me to meet Sri first on the actual day. Me and Sri will decorate the dance studio first and than get all the necessary mixers for the night. Then wifey will come and join us to touch up the area right after his work.

BUT... this is not the end... hahaha

At night, wifey was really really excited and was also worried if things can turn out as nicely as he expected. So need to touch up more on the venue. Borrowed my brother's WISH to meet wifey and we drove around to look for items that we need to buy to touch up the place. So off to Mustafa we drove.

Honestly I am kinda freaky that night. Cos I myself am not an experienced driver who drives all the time and OMG, Mustafa at night is so pack!! Lots of people who blend into the colour of the night walking around and if not for their teeth and clothes I would have knocked down many like a bowling ball to bowling pins! So got to turn slowly and drive like a tortoise also. Anyway we took some time to wait for a nice parking lot before we managed to go shopping.

Well, cant really remember what we bought... table cloth etc??? But it was a good trip as wifey managed to get most of the things he foresee needed for the YEP :) Am happy for him. Drove back to my workplace to put the stuff before I drove him home. Am actually honry that night and was hoping to make-love with him in my office or dance studio as it's kinky but wifey is really tired and he is working morning shift... so just buried my desires for that night :)



Year End Party Day
Woke up early although am kinda tire. Was preparing my clothing for tonight's party. This is the time I will get to meet some of my wifey's close fiends whom have heard of me but not seen me yet, vice versa.

Met Sri in the afternoon and we decorated the dance studio. Both of us were constantly worried during the designing as the only question we asked each other is, "You think Sheri will be ok with this?" hahaha, sounded kind of weird right, but it's the truth. All the time we were only concern if my wifey will like what we design, luckily he did like it when he saw it, else will have to re-do liao :)

After that me and Sri head to NTUC to buy mixers and also take lunch-dinner. We were both very very hungry but only eat porridge as later wifey got cater food. Basically everything was prepared by around 4pm. So time to rest and wait for wifey.

Wifey was heading to bedok to get some stuff and also flowers. He mentioned before he wanna have lilies in the room to make it look nicer. Wifey is pretty satisfied with the deco in the dance studio. Only thing is the mixers... wifey was angry as both me and Sri chose the mixers which is not suitable (perfectionist at work here). So we head to the NTUC again to buy some more. Honestly I think Sri was kinda upset. Afterall, she carried about 4kg worth of drinks in each hand and walked a long distance from the nearest NTUC. Can really see that she felt not appreciated for the work done (me felt a bit too actually). Anyway, she got over it soon as it seem like something that she is used to hahaha.

Finally, everything is in place and just need to wait for guests to arrive. Yana arrived first, earlist but also the earlist to leave due to work. The other guests came in one-after-another, majority late of cos as my wifey expected. They had fun as they were pretty amazed with the dance studio deco and also with the band studio. Lots of food and many are too shy to take :) We also watched a movie in the dance studio, setting up the projector and projector screen. Am very busy that night cos majority of the things need to take care since it's office stuff and I want wifey to enjoy moments with his BFF or GFF and not working like Maid-Sharina.

The evening ended with everyone mostly high from vodlka, and getting changed and ready for ST JAMES. Good thing there is a shower room in the dance studio for everyone to change into their clubbing outfit. Wifey also get ready there with them, as mostly are his "sisters"



St James was packed as usual that night and lots of strange things going on. Firstly there is a check for aids using a new device mouth-swap where u just swap the things on ur upper and lower gums and they will give u the results within 24 hrs. Sound pretty convenient hur? And the accuracy is 99%!! Amazing technology nowadays right? 2ndly, due to the long long queue, priority is given to those who purchase the FABULOUS CD. Good way to do sales as we are still way behind when the clock struck mid-night... gosh that is how pack St James was that night...

Getting frustrated, all of us bought a CD just to get into the club since we don't wanna waste time standing and waiting. But that was worth it. Music that night was freaking good and best of all, lots of people going in together. Even before entering we were all having fun as one of Sri's friend lost her mobile (not the first time) and also Sri actually got a bottle of vodlka hidden inside her hahaha... made all of us sound like some cheapo to smuggle in vodlka to make the drinks stronger, but whatever, who cares right? :)

Once inside, the "forbidden" vodlka was immediately used on two jugs of vodlka orange and red-bull, making it thicker than I ever tried. Then I started playing five-ten with Sri, Kath(or Cath), and Joey, loser drink a sip or mouth. Been losing quite a lot that night dunno why and my face was like cooked lobster within minutes. Am also feeling high and dizzy. Wifey came to my rescue by helping me to drink when I lost a game hahaha. Muacks so sweet of him... or is he after the Vodlka??

We had lots of fun at the dance floor too. With all the people dancing and shaking like nobody's business, everyone was like smiling and laughing away. It is kinda like hundreds of people escape from IMH who are overdose with medication (I am one of them). Many times I wanna kiss and hug my wifey but was rejected by him as he was dancing hahahaha a bit embarrassing. Even throughout the dances, I am still sipping away on a jug of vodlka-orange and I know I am high already... but that was fun. There was also a lot of cam-whoring by my wifey and his sisters as well as some hot guys at the smoking area in St James.



Finally the night ended and everyone was so tired from the shaking of the body, jumping high and low and also the vodlka!! We all took cabs back to my workplace. Am pretty sober by then as the dancing everything wore off the high-ness feeling and also had drank lots of water. The rest was like gone-case though... once back to my workplace, mostly were looking for food. Some of the food leftover from the party was reheated. Better than having nothing right? And after food, everyone was asleep in some corner of the dance studio. Even wifey was fast asleep.

Feel like waking him up cause he agreed to make-love with me on the office dining table after clubbing (kinky hur??) but guess he was really shag out as he was working morning shift prior to the YEP. Was disappointed of cos but a relationshop can't be just focus on sex. The primary survival and needs of the person I love should always be place in top priority in my life. In this case, wifey is my top priority.

Time is still passing by, most of them are fast asleep. I am wide awake though a bit tire also. Can't really sleep as I am horny with the anticipation of dining table fun. Well, better to make full use of the energy so I started to clear up the studio and throw as much rubbish and left over food away as possible. Afterall, by around 7am, the cleaner will come in to clean up Dreams.

There are lots of things to do. Other than cleaning up the place, the deco needs to be removed and kept. The furniture also needs to be shifted back to the office and respective rooms. The place also needs to be cleared such that no one will know I use the office as a party venue, afterall I did not seek permission hahaha, daring right?

It started to get frustrated as I am doing the things, mainly because I am also afraid to wake up my wifey and his friends as they are all resting. So more effort needed to be quiet and also the process become slower than what I expected. Frustration built up more also partly because I am freaking horny and seeing my wifey asleep kinda makes me more "argghhh" inside. Well by the time things are cleared I started waking them up one by one as I really need them to leave by 7pm. Most of them are okay, or at least they say okay out of courtesy and perhaps also because my face don't look as friendly compared to last night.

Somehow, wifey sensed my frustration and maybe due to his lack of rest, he also become unhappy with me. It's really an unhappy moment that we even argue (behind closed doors) on this. Guess his friends knew that we seem to be showing each other attitude and a "face", they had quickly gone off and head home individually. Me and wifey then took a cab and I sent him home.

Well, i still remembered we did not talk much on the way home, both a little unhappy about each other. It's only when we reached his house that we started to talk it out. It turned out that he was hoping that his friends can rest till about 9am as he got the impression that I can let them stay till that timing. It's a communication breakdown and things turn unhappy. I also voice out to him about my unhappiness and why i have a kind of "face".

Finally we both came to an understanding that quarrelling like that is endless and we started to kiss and hug each other. Somehow, no matter how upset I am with my wifey over anything, his kiss and hug will just melt me and let everything unhappy be washed away. I really miss kissing him and his hugging a lot. And of cos, we made-love. It was kind of rush as he was worried my MIL will come back soon so have to speed things up a little. In the end everything went well. Both of us had resolved the unhappiness. He heard my issues and why I am upset. I learnt to be more understanding and more percise when communicating with him. And most importantly, we love each other more.

"WIFEY, I NEVER STOP LOVING YOU, AND I WON'T STOP TOO (,") " Hubby Roger

p/s: Dearest Wifey, I know you considered that it is okay for you to walk around in your underwear in front of your "sisters" regardless they are real females or male sisters. Most likely they have seen you in your underwear and you have seen them in their bras, panties and even their boxers or briefs. However, I really feel uncomfortable that you are been seen in your underwear by anyone, especially your underwears are mostly low-hip showing your nice little butt crack. Please do try your best not to do so in the future as I really get upset seeing you exposed in that manner... muacks muacks

1st Time @ St James

It's after Hari Raya Fasting. Wifey had not been clubbing for at least 3 weeks!! Amazing hur?? hahaha but he did it and I am very proud of him.

So, that night, forgotten the exact date but it's really time for my wifey to have a good time to shake his bom-bom on the dance floor. It was my first time in St James and the queue was freaking long. Wifey was dressed in berms and black long-sleeve. He really really look fucking cute and fucking hot!! And that was before he started to drink and dance.



Once inside, of cos started off with drinks. That night seem more pack. St James is really huge place and lots of people flocking the place. Guess many muslim also came clubbing since fasting month was over. The music is great too. More energetic compared to PLAY and TABOO. Though many songs are the same clubbing songs but the atmosphere and crowd seem to make the song more hyper and exciting than usual. Can really feel the heat by those people, and some smell too... hahaha...

Once started with drinks, wifey started to shake around. He was not high that night I dunno why. Maybe too little liqour? Or is it me around that he felt constraint? Hope not the latter...

The night went slow. With the music and drinks somehow time are slower than usual. Am not sure what time St James closed but wifey had initially promised me that we will stop at 3am to 3.30am so that we can make our way to the nearest Hotel for love-making sesion since we did not really have it when he is fasting (only once). However, the music at the end was great. Kinda forgotten the time and in the end we left the place around 4am with his friends. We still proceed to the Hotel as usual and booked a room for 3 hours.



Was actually anticipating a really hot love-making session since we have not had it for some time and I am also freaking turn-on and horny for my wifey. Wifey was not very responsive though. It appeared that he was really tire as he was working before Hari Raya and on Hari Raya he was out visiting whole day. Concluded to say, he lacked resting time, big time lacking. Although he told me I can just do anything I want but it really kind of kills the mood. I was hoping for lots of kisses, lots of smiles from him, lots of tight warm hugs, lots of weet words and really lots of fondling with each other before the two of us become one. Somehow that did not happen. He just sleep there with one leg up so that I can have access to his forbidden temple.

Well, in the end we did "fuck" a bit but am really not in the mood anymore. I had always classify our session as making love instead of fucking as emotions are involved. Love is felt, happiness is experienced, not just the physical gratification of releasing one's white juice out of the body. And his lying there motionless made him looked like a corpse. So in the end I just jerk off and sleep with him till the morning before we hail a cab to send him home. Although it's a bit disaapointing with all the anticipating that wifey had promised me, but I know that he is really really tire out and need a lot of rest. I know someday wifey will put me, put us, before such activities. Although I do not know when it will be but wifey is worth me waiting.

"I LOVE U WIFEY SHAARI, VERY VERY MUCH :)" Hubby Roger

1st time Clubbing at PLAY

After my first visit to Taboo with my Wifey, life seem to get more excited between us. Wifey started asking me to join him on several occasionals when he and his "sisters" planned on their clubbing outing. Good for me honestly as I always have this fearful feeling that my wifey will be hooked in clubs. It's kinda like a piece of hot, steamy meat among a pack of hungry wolves... scary right?

Again, still been a greenhorn in the clubbing scene, am totally clueless what to wear. So once again, into Wifey's cupboard I looked and with his insight, a black & white horizontal stripes was chosen.



Well, the night went pretty nice. wifey was wearing a sleeveless checked shirt with kind of shiny jeans. And Oh my god, he is freaking hot that night with that outfit. Am turn on by him the whole night and honestly, i am practically having a hard-on most of the night just being with him!!

Met some new people there whom just talked to us randomly. Both of them are gals and are lesbians. However one of them looked so much like a guy that i did not even know he is a she. It's really kind of confusing to describe. Basically the he-look-a-like gal gave me a little embarrassing moments...

Firstly, cos my wifey took a picture with him... I mean her. And without knowing him is a her, and honestly she looks cute when she looks so like a him, I kinda get jealous. And very jealous cos I don't look that good or photogenic compare to him, I mean her, when i took pictures with my wifey.

Secondly, I sensed that he, she was giving me a lot of eye-contacts. The kind of strange look which I cannot differentiate as "this guy looks ugly, why did Shaari choose him" look or "i am hitting on you don't you know" look. Of couse it won't be the latter choice now that I know he is a she, but he, she did give me really lots of looks. Well, I guess he, she was lonely and I'm also quite left alone a lot of moments when wifey disappeared with his sisters to don't know where, but the looks from his, her eyes that fixed on me is really really strange at those times.

And the most embarrassing moment is in fact after clubbing when we all went eating. I still did not know he is a she till Sri brought up the topic when he, she went to order his, her food. Damn malu on the spot as I am like a complete idiot with eyes at the top of my head. Seem like everyone knows he is a she except for me, the ultimate blur-slash-stupid guy the whole time.

Anyway that was the embarrassing moments and I am so glad nobody knows, until now :)

Well, story continues with my wifey. Lots of fun dancing with him on the dance-floor. And gosh I do not know why but when he shake his body, I am totally, as in TOTALLY, attracted to him. His moments was not really special or unique. But somehow it seem that no matter how he move his body, I just love it and I just fall in love more and more with him. It's really not something I know how to put into words and it sounds lame to only say I love him more and more, but that is the truth and that is what I really felt.

The night ended well. After dancing, drinking, smoking, and eating, both me and Wifey felt contended. Especially for me after knowing that "he is a she" person is not a guy. Basically my jealousy are all gone and the he-hitting-on-me feeling is gone too. Well, kinda feel slight unhappy though over the looks he, she had placed on me though but whatever, I got over it. After everything, wifey held my hand and we walked out of the Maxwell market together, hand-in-hand to hail for a taxi. Sweet of him to do that hehe, am really really happy when he does that in public, though most of the public are gay there since it's after clubbing at PLAY. And we headed straight back to his place, where we kissed and hugged pasionately in his bedroom, with my MIL sleeping next door. And of course, the night ended with a hot-passionate session of love-making.

"I LOVE YOU VERY MUCH WIFEY SHAARI." Hubby Roger

1st Time Clubbing together @ TABOO

This is the first time I join my wifey for clubbing.

It was his good friend, Kat's or is it Cath's (i haven't make it clear till today) birthday and his group of "sisters" are celebrating in Maxwell Market followed by a night of D&D (dancing & drinking).

Being the home-base-mountain-tortoise of the century, I'd only been to ZOUK only and that was like during my army days(don't know that was how many donkey years ago). So, basically I don't have the proper shirt and shoes to wear for clubbing. A good headache for the night...

Luckily there is never a lack of clothes or shoes for my wifey since he's been clubbing for years and looking inside his cupboard for the first time while he search for a suitable top for me... i am like "WoW!!". Basically, all I can think of at the point of time is "You need a bigger, much bigger cupboard!".

I guess he heard my thought and in order to punish me, he chose for me a totally pinkisk top to wear. We may not have known each other long at that point of time but he certainly knows me well that I will reject as I am definitely the kind of "No Pink for the Man!" kind of guy and he is going to make me look like Pink Panther for the night. Well, wifey's wish... hubby's command!

Am dressed in pink for the night and out to meet his "sisters". A totally new experiences for me. How would I describe them?? Fun, and lots of crazy moments... but definitely more to the latter hahahaha... but am comfortable and happy hanging out with them.

Wifey is very sexy that night. His dressing is simple but somehow he just look "hot". Furthermore, he was high aren't you my wifey? After a few glasses of drinks and a little dance... basically my wifey is just super attractive.

The mosts unforgettable memory of that night was of cos outside TABOO. When my wifey held me in his arms and pull my lips towards his lips and we started kissing, in the public, right in front of his friends and passer-by, with the police across the streets. It was not just a quick kiss. It's a kiss that lasted about 15 seconds right in the public.

I'll never forget that kiss on that night my wifey. The memory of it, the high of it, the sweetness of your lips and the feeling of excitement and heart pounding feeling... it's still as clear as blue sky to me till today.



Thank you very much for that wonderful kiss that night and many more nice kisses throughout the night. And of course, after the dance and drinks, I headed back to my wifey's room to spend a wonderful night together. A night of hot love-making session with my wifey...

"I LOVE YOU, WIFEY SHAARI... MUACKS MUACKS " Hubby Roger

12th August 2007, Sunday

This is a special day. This is the day Roger Ong met Shaari B Sapari.

This day is also the day both Roger and Shaari agree upon to be the anniversary date of their love and marraige.

Yes, MARRIAGE!!

Roger Ong had proposed to Shaari at a later date and Shaari had agreed to marry Roger.

White lilies were used for the proposal, in Shaari's bedroom.

Not very romantic but definitely very loving and sincere in the process.

Roger had prepared in advance a "Certificate of Marriage" for Shaari and himself to sign

should Shaari accept the proposal.

This is indeed a day worth celebrating and remembering for both Roger and Shaari.

Roger and Shaari will share their love and walk down a long path forever together,

hand-in-hand, heart-with-heart.

They had promised each other to love each other forever and

go through happiness, sadness, in well-being or in sickness, and till-death-do-they-part.

Roger will honour this vow and so will Shaari.

Muacks Muacks...

"I LOVE YOU, WIFEY SHAARI, FOREVER."

Hubby Roger

Opening Message

Dearest Wifey Shaari,

i am quite a computer idiot especially in dealing with website and blogging.

Considering the improve in technology, even kids nowadays blogs and their blogs can really be magnifician and very "WoW". Thus, I thought I would like to try out now and do a blog not just for me but for us.

I know you always like to read blogs of others. I hope when this blog is done and ready for your reading pleasure, you will take time to read it constantly.

However, this blog is slightly different as it will not just be a blogging page for me, but it's for US. I hope you can contribute actively to the blog too so that we both can understand each other better.

In Singapore, finding someone to love is easy. There are honestly lots of hunks with nice cute face and hot steamy bods. However, finding someone who we love and can love us back for who we are and accepting us as who we are is never easy. So many PLUs in Singapore are always seeking love and partners but so little found their life-partners in life. And majority end up giving-up totally and just engage in seeking sexual gratification for the rest of their lives.

I am lucky that I met you, though a bit late in my life. I am even more lucky to have you accepting my love and giving me your love too. I want us to be together always and create a family together. I hope you feel the same way too and is willing to join me in this life-long venture together. Please love me forever for who I am and I will love you forever with my heart and soul, atoms, cells and molecules, for who you are and what you become.

Lastly I am going tell you the same few words that I always tell you, in person, in sms, in emails, in letters and cards sent to you...

"I LOVE YOU, SHAARI B SAPARI. "

Yours Forever
Hubby Roger