Honeymoon Trip II

23rd June 2009 to 26th June 2009

Wifey is having his holidays for two weeks before his school reopens on 29th June Monday. The first week of his holidays was a busy week for me as I need to settle some stuff at work, thus we are not able to go on our second honeymoon. Therefore we planned to go on the second week from Tuesday to Friday (so that I can take a long break from work) and rest during the weekend to recover our energy. The only issue we have before we left is on financial. We are lacking the money to indulge at our second honeymoon location - Phuket.

Air Flight

We booked Tiger Airways for both going and coming back trips. It is a budget airline and we have to go to the new budget terminal to board the airplane. It is the first time for both wifey and me at budget terminal and we like the place. The budget terminal is not big and there are not many shops for buying stuff, but it is considered good for us as we get to eat nice food and we do not have many things to shop and spend money on.

This is my first time taking Tiger Airways. It is quite a good experience for both flights. The aircraft itself is small and looks unstable. On the flight back the aircraft also experienced a little turbulence and felt shaky. However, both flights landed safely and stably. There are no meals provided for both flights as both are short distance flight which last about 100 minutes each. The steward (only one) and stewardesses on board are friendly and smiles all the time. They are also very polite and pretty. Overall, this flight is worth what we paid for.

Accommodation

We booked our stay at Club One Seven. This is a gay hotel which also has a sauna and spa in Singapore. In Singapore, many gay men went to this sauna and spa as it is one of the many that provide really good facilities such as steam room, sauna room and a nice, big Jacuzzi pool. Mostly, gay men visit the sauna and spa to cruise and get laid.

In Phuket, this Club One Seven hotel is not the same as in Singapore as this is a hotel. The main purpose is of course to house visitors and let them have an enjoyable stay. The room is cosy and has a nice balcony. The only sad thing is that there are renovations going on at both sides of the hotel. Thus, the nice facilities available at the hotel turned out to be not as enjoyable. The hotel has a Jacuzzi pool but due to the renovations going on, the pool was pretty dirty. Also, the noise from the renovations and the workers walking around made the area less private as compared to the past.

Me and wifey have to drop the idea to fornicate in the open (one of our sexual fantasies) due to all these distractions. Other than that, the service provided is tip-top. As the place was quite small, the staffs gets to know the guests easily and every time we returned from our sight-seeing outside, the staff will greet us and pass us our room key without having to tell them which room we stayed. Most importantly, we arrived early and the room was ready for us to check-in early. When we leave late (6pm), the staffs also allow us to occupy the room till we leave without any additional charges. Wifey and me are really happy and impressed with such a service. We will definitely give this hotel another consideration after the renovations are completed.

Weather

Well, before I left for Phuket, Andy had told me the place is hot and I totally agree. Can see that Andy looks more tann after he came back and from the pictures he took, the place is really burning. Wifey’s friend, Thomas was there for a week and he warned wifey too of the hot weather and reminded him to bring sun-block. However, during the 4 days we are there, two of the days were raining heavily in the morning, which kinds of ruined our plans to get a nice suntan in the morning before we head for shopping and massage in the afternoon. Nonetheless, we enjoyed every single second we are there despite the weather, and most of the time, it was still hot and sunny, allowing both me and wifey to get a nice tann.

Food

Well, we are in Thailand and thus, the food we ate are really nice Thai food. Most of the time we ate at the food court at Jungceylon, a new shopping mall in Phuket. This food court allows only cash card payment which they provide the card while the rest top-up the amount. The food there are of reasonable price though they are considered twice more expensive compared to the street food. The advantage is that the place is fully air-con, and more comfortable. Best of all, a lot of choices which allows us to choose without having to walk many streets to find what we want.

The pricing of other non-Thai food are not cheap. They are of almost equal price to those of Singapore. When we are there, we also indulged in many ice-cream treats. Of course, those are considered as healthy ice-cream and we had at least one per day. We also tried the fast food Burger King which has the Rodeo Burger that Singapore no longer has. We also went Starbucks to eat Strawberry Crepe Cake which Singapore does not have at all. One of the nights, we went for street food, which is really cheap and tasty. Throughout the whole trip, we did not eat at any restaurant partly because we are broke and lacking money, but we did really enjoy majority of the food we ate at Phuket.

Entertainment

There are actually a lot of entertainment that me and wifey can sign up for such as Bungy Jump, visit to several islands such as James Bond Island, Phi Phi Island etc, but we did not. I personally did not find such visits exciting. We also did not go for snorkelling trip as I will prefer to bring wifey to Redang Island if he wants to experience snorkelling. Instead, most of the time we were walking to explore the different shops and streets at Phuket. We also went for two movies, Transformers and Up. Most importantly, we signed up for the famous Phuket Fantasea show which really gives us a great night of entertainment.

Wifey and me also went to the gay area to have a look on our first night. It was actually pretty boring as the ‘boys’ are not active (guess it is due to a weekday) and most importantly, they are not even cute or having a nice built. Most of them are actually gross to me and I am quite happy to leave the area soonest possible. And seriously, I will not even give any consideration to try their saunas or spas or massages provided at that area.

Massages

Well, this is one of the most important enjoyment one must get in Phuket. However, there are too many providers and mostly are seeking ‘extra services’ to provide for customers so that they can earn the extra money. There are females and also males who seek to provide such services. I am not really interested to get any ‘extra service’ and hope to find a really good masseuer who can helped me loosen my bones and muscles. The Club One Seven staff had recommended a good one, C-&-N hotel massage. This massage is also been accredited and thus they provide only massage service and nothing else.

On the second day of our trip, we visited this C-&-N and tried it out their oil massage. It was seriously good and both me and wifey were very pleased, happy and enjoyed the massage thoroughly. The strength was constant and powerful. Wifey fell asleep during the massage while I keep myself awake to enjoy every single moment. The massage was so good that at the end of the massage, we gave a tip to both massaeuger who service us. We also returned on the last day of our trip to have a package of the massage. As for third day, I will describe later. The last day, both me and wifey took a package that consist of 30 minutes body scrub, 60 minutes of massage (I chose Aloe Vera Massage while wifey chose Sports Massage), followed by another 60 minutes of foot reflexology massage.

This is the first time I tried body scrub and the feeling was ‘oh my god’ nice. For once I felt the effect of rough rubbing as if having sand rubbing all over but the feeling was not pain and instead only comfortable, shiok and damn enjoyable. Moreover, the lotion was been heated up and when rubbed all over the body, I felt so warm and nice. It is such a formidable combination, no wonder a lot of ladies like to go for body scrub. I also like it after the first trial and will sure go for it again whenever I have the chance. The Aloe Vera Massage was just as great as the oil massage on the second day. I tried to keep awake but fell asleep halfway. As described earlier on, the strength used is powerful and constant. I can really feel myself relaxed and every muscles and bones in my body loosen up. Wifey’s Sports Massage was great too, although I cannot see or feel, but I can hear wifey’s bone cracking sound when the massueger massage wifey.

The last part was the most exciting, foot reflexology massage. I am very sensitive to pain especially at my foot. This is not the first time I had foot reflex and I love and hate this pain I get from it. I love it because it is shiok but I hate it because it is pain, overall, it is painfully shiok (I sound like a saddist). But I really have to take my hat off to the masseuger, after massaging me and wifey (separate masseguer) for a good 90 minutes, they are still able to apply force and skill during the food reflexology massage. Although I felt painful when in the process, I was actually enjoying it a lot and at the end of the session, both me and wifey felt very light-weighted and as if we are in heaven. This is certainly a place where we will recommend to whoever wants proper massage services at Phuket.

For the second day in Phuket, we visited another massage area called Let’s Relax. This is considered as high-class massage place where they provide the service more tip-top than the other massage place we went. The price is more than twice of what we paid also. When we first go in, we were served to select the type of massage we want. Once decided, we were given slippers and a cup of tea before they usher us to our private room. We have to take a lift (yes they have their own private lift in their massage house) to the second storey to go to our room. There, we were given robes to wear and also disposable underwear to change into so that our own underwear will not get dirty. There is also a bath area for us to clean ourselves up before the massage. The massage oil was individual and new bottle, where we can take it back with us if unfinished.

The massage skill wise is pretty similar as we both ordered aromatherapy message. Thus, they are not supposed to use too much strength on us. The purpose is to have the massage oil all over our body and let our body absorb the oil to make us relax. Both of us chose lemongrass odour as it is the best choice among all. After the massage, we were also given a biscuit and tea before we left the place.

Overall, the service is nicer and better, making one feel like a kind. Skill wise I do prefer C-&-N as they are able to massage with more strength and pressing the pressure points effectively. Me and wifey also decided that if we ever go back again, we will visit C-&-N again daily to have a good massage.

Shopping

It is something unplanned for as we are on a budgeted trip. However, my salary came in on the third day of the trip, thus allowing me and wifey to spend and do light shopping. I managed to get myself a new bag to use for work and also gotten my mother an ELLE bag for her to use when she goes out. Wifey did not manage to get too much stuff as the clothing he wants does not have his size. In the end, he got himself a pair of new jeans only. For me wise, wifey chose a new pair of berms for me, two long sleeves and one short sleeve T-shirts. We also chose a top for June, my new colleague as a birthday present.

We also managed to get some gifts for our family members. Wifey bought dried food back for his mom and cousins. He also bought elephant coin pouches for MIL to distribute to whoever she wants to. For me, I bought wooden bookmarks for all my nephew and nieces as a present. I also bought incenses for colleagues from Dreams. Other than that we did not buy any other stuff as our bags are full. Overall, we did have a great time shopping after the third day of the trip.

Expenditures

Initially we only planned $1000 in total for our trip, including flight. However, knowing myself and wifey, we are bound to exceed that amount of money. Below is the estimated amount we spent in total for the whole trip (to the best of my memories).

Description Thai Baht Sing Dollars
Air Flight - SGD 230

Hotel Club One Seven + Airport Transfer + Phuket Fantasea Show

TB10800 (MasterCard) - SGD475

Cash - 300

Cash Withdrawal

TB7150 (150 charge) - SGD320
TB2150 (150 charge) - SGD100

Massage - TB5000 - SGD220

Shopping

TB1245 (my work bag) - SGD55
TB1487.50 (Mummy’s Bag) - SGD65

Total: SGD1765

Well, although we have exceeded our expenditure (thanks to my salary on third day), both of us are very happy to spend the four days together. We really spend quality time outside the hotel eating, shopping, teasing each other, massage, and other forms of entertainment. Inside the hotel, although we did not make-love every single night, we did always fornicate and fore-play with each other. We are also able to shower together everyday and hug each other to sleep.

“Thank You for Going to Phuket with Me”
“I Love You, My Darling Wifey Shaari’
Hubby Roger

22nd Anniversary

12th June 2009

Finally, it’s the day of the month again. Today is me and wifey’s 22nd month anniversary. The only difference is that I am busy with work (Jurong area) while wifey is having his attachment at CDC till 9pm.

Well, since it’s our anniversary, of course we will be doing something. Well, it’s late at night so we can’t go shopping. Food wise, not much nice food in that area near CDC thus we made an alternative.

Well, above second paragraph is a lie. We made plans already for this day. We were both HONRY and we of course planned to go H81 for a good fuck!!! The only alternative is that I thought we are going Kovan H81 but wifey had everything planned out already and we walked to the nearest H81 at Balestial, which is about 10 minutes walk.

Of course the process of our love-making will not be mentioned here again. All I can say is OTT!

After our love-making we took a cab home. I had previously made a card and put inside the letter box, which wifey did not know of cos. I just pretend to peep in and asked him to clear the ‘rubbish’ inside so that he opened the letter box and retrieved the card.

It is supposed to be a happy thingy the whole day and it is. Until the very next day when wifey discovered that he dropped his coach wrist pouch in the cabby that we took. The saddest thing of all is that our wedding ring is inside. It is the third ring and it is once again gone. Guess it’s an omen that we should change a new wedding ring and let this current design retire.

“Happy Anniversary”
“I Love You Wifey Shaari”
Hubby Roger

Car and Condo

7th June 2009

The past seven days has been a very experiential week for me. My sister is out of town and she left me the keys to her condo as well as her car. Simply to say, I will be living a week of my life as condo owner and a Corolla Altis driver!!

However, this one week is really expensive. Maintaining a car is really something for the rich. Petrol and parking alone cost me approximately $200 for just the seven days owning the car. It is a good experience though to prepare for future if I intend to own a car.

The best thing out of the whole week is convenience. I get to either send wifey to work in the early morning, if not get to send wifey home from work at late night. Best of all, wifey gets to stay overnight with me in the condo over the weekend. Although this is supposed to be a good thing but it was not exactly a happen stay over. I had wanted to spend the whole night hugging and cuddling wifey to sleep but somehow, there were last minute plans.

The first night that wifey stayed over, we slept late. Partly because wifey was not tire. I felt asleep early around 1am in the morning. Wifey was still serving the net as he can’t get to sleep. I also did not know what time he sleeps but by the time we woke up, he needs to leave for home already; else my MIL will be nagging at him.


The second night which was also the last night, we were invited to go clubbing to celebrate Faridah’s birthday. Same, it lasted till the next day morning about 6am. It was supposed to end around 3am but his friend Gabby was in some kind of trouble and by the time all of us save her, and send her back home, it was early morning. We only managed to catch a few hours sleep before I sent him home to rest.

One week of privileges, two nights of sleepovers, but not to my expectations. I felt that such a chance is rare to come by and wifey has not been sensitive and give me any priorities to spend time together. Seriously, when I get to know I have access to Condo and car, all I wished for is to spend the whole day and night at home to watch TV, take a nap, and tease each other. Once in a while can just drive out to look for food, then perhaps light window shopping before going back home to laze in bed and cuddle. Hope the next time when such a chance comes again, I can fulfill my wish.

“I Love You Wifey Shaari”
“Thank You for Spending Time With Me”
Hubby Roger

Wifey Drinks my Cum for the First Time

26th May 2009

Today is such a busy day. Totally has no time to sms wifey. Feel so bad about it as I had promised wifey that I will try to sms him no matter how busy I am and I really want to, not because I promised wifey, but because I really love wifey a lot and miss wifey very very much.

Wifey called me after his work as he needs to amend his case study and print again. He had rushed home to do the amendment required and emailed me to me before I knocked off from work. He also informed me that MIL will be going JB with his cousin and they had left the house leaving him alone at home.

After work, I took MRT straight to Tampines area. Along the way, I brought fried spring chicken and cheese fries back to wifey’s house as both of us had not taken dinner and are both hungry. Since MIL will not be back too early, we took our time to eat and watch TV together.

Around 9 plus we were both feeling horny. Maybe it was just me as I am always horny for wifey. We headed to the showers together. Before that we stripped each other nude and I held wifey by his hard dick and lead him to the kitchen washroom.

I started to shower him clean, soaping him all around. I also tease wifey as I soap him. I played with wifey’s nipples and also give his manhood a soapy massage. Wifey was moaning slightly as my hands slide up and down his had dick covered with soap. After a short while I rinsed him clean and we head to his room.

We did not fuck that night. I wanted to fuck and wifey wanted to be fucked as well but his tummy is not feeling well. We did some other stuff which surprised me a lot. As usual we will start off kissing and fondling each other’s body. Although we have touched each other’s body for many many times but I am never sick of it. There’s lots of sucking and wifey also lick between my legs (below the balls) where I am most sensitive, making me super high.

Soon, I was very high and started to jerk myself off as wifey kiss me and use his hands to play with my balls. As I was about to cum, I signal to wifey and he quickly put his mouth over my dick head and cover it, making me cum even faster than I expected and I filled his mouth with my cum.

Wifey had told me before that he never let anyone cum in his mouth before and he does not like the idea of cum drinking and will not ever try it. I am totally surprised that he is willing to do that for me, considered that I cum a lot and usually that is pretty scary for him. This time round wifey really let me cum in his mouth although a few drops dripped out as wifey said I cum too much for him to drink.

After I cummed, wifey swallow everything he can get and told me it was kind of salty. I feel so high and satisfied. It has been more almost two years since I cum in someone’s mouth (the last was my ex) and had someone swallow my man-juice. Am totally happy and feel so glad that I married someone who is willing to change for me.

After I cummed and wifey swallow, I helped to jerk wifey off. I pour some lube on his dick and started to jerk him as I use one hand to play his nipples while my tongue licked another nipple. Wifey cummed in a short while and he cummed quite a lot as well. We then proceed to wash up and rest a while. After that I left wifey’s house as he was tire also and need to rest. I was so tire that I took a cab home instead of bus.

“Muacks Muacks Wifey Shaari”
“Thank You for Drinking my Cum”
Hubby Roger

Fun @ Dreams

25th May 2009

Wifey went for a hair cut with Ayu today after his attachment ends at 3.00pm. His hair is considered long and making him uncomfortable, most importantly, making him takes a long time to get ready.

After wifey had his hair cut, he came over to my workplace to have dinner with me. We went to Boon Keng area and ate a nice sumptuous dinner. Nothing too expensive as we are both very broke, but something good enough, and price is just right.

After dinner, I send wifey home. While on the way home (near to wifey’s house already), I reminded wifey to email me his case study so that I can print it for him. Wifey needs to hand up the case study tomorrow and I guess he knew me too well, he just refused to email me until I can confirm that I can borrow car to drive to Dreams to print.

No matter how hard I try to convince him to email me wifey just would not. He knew very well that if he emails me the attachment, I would just head back to Dreams to help him print his case study and then send it to him personally. This is so as there is no guarantee that I would be able to get car tonight, especially from my brother.

I rushed home quickest possible and tried to borrow car. My brother is out with my sis-in-law and one of their kids. So I have to wait for them to return before I can borrow car. They came back pretty late surprisingly and it was around 10 plus at night by the time they were back. Luckily I managed to borrow the car from them before they went to bed and informed wifey so that he can get ready and we go back Dreams to print his case study.

I decided to wear something sexy. I put on my singlet and removed my underwear, wearing only the skimpy SAF high-cut running shorts. Am damn sexy. When I picked wifey up, he was wearing singlet also and his shorts. I have a feeling that he does not have any underwear under those shorts and I know that I will find out soon after I reached Dreams.

Once we reached my work place, we quickly download his case study and print it. Making sure that it was done correctly as that will determine wifey’s results for his clinical attachment. After wifey printed his case study, we did not leave Dreams immediately.

I took out my penis (which is already hard like rock) from the side of the shorts and wifey immediately suck it. Wifey sat on the chair sucking my hard dick while I sat on the table. The feeling is really good. After that we switch roles, wifey continue to sit on the chair while I knee on the floor and roll his singlet up starting to play his nipples. It is damn delicious. I lick it gently and taste them. I also suck on them gently and once in a while nibble on them.

Wifey is really and it is as obvious as he was leaking and the front spot of his shorts was already wet. The only thing that lacks at that point of time is fucking. I want to fuck wifey badly at that point of time but I know very well wifey would not agree as he dares not. So I did not ask him to avoid disappointment.

We stopped after some time as we both know that we cannot endure the seduction that we are sending to each other if we go on. We need to fuck badly at this point of time and if we continue we will be heading to Hotel 81 in no time. Wifey had to wake up early for his attachment and my MIL will nag if he goes home late so we should get a hold on ourselves and stop.

I drove wifey home and send him up. Before he left, I took out my penis again which was still hard as rock and wifey took it in his mouth, at the corridor outside his house. Although wifey is not sucking my dick for a long time outside his house, his bold action has already proven that he is willing to take risk to be with me.

“I Love You Wifey Shaari”
“Very Very Much”
Hubby Roger

Eye irritation

10th May 2009

I am supposed to go for wifey’s cousin wedding today as well. I attended the ceremony yesterday and today is supposed to be the makan part when one would go and eat and wait for the groom to fetch the bride. According to wifey, today will be grand event as the groom had engaged ‘performers’ to play music (traditional malay wedding music) when he fetch the bride.

I wanted to attend so much but I woke up with a massive eye irritation. My right eye was swollen and I look so damn ugly. It is really upsetting and so in the end I have to stay home to rest and give the wedding a miss. This is really bad luck for me. Worse of all, I missed wifey a lot on this day.

‘Wifey Shaari, I Love You.”
Hubby Roger

Wedding

9th May 2009

Wifey’s cousin is getting married today. This cousin according to wifey is one of the better ones that he likes and is willing to help. This is also an important day to me as I was the only one that was invited to watch the ceremony. When I say the only one invited, it was not a joke. Among all wifey’s friends, MIL knew Sri, Yazid and a few others who are very close to wifey. However, MIL had invited me (through Kak Ita) to come and witness the ceremony. Wonder if this is a hint to me that she allows me to marry wifey.

The ceremony was held in the late afternoon, and there are really lots of people. Even wifey’s relatives from Malaysia came down to witness the ceremony. Kak Wary and her daughter were also present and sad to say her daughter could not remember who I am.

Me and wifey headed up when the timing for the ceremony approaches and we remained in the kitchen to watch the whole ceremony. Before that, we managed to take a picture together with the bride and see how nicely the room is decorated for the wedding.

The whole ceremony is pretty fast compared to the one i went with wifey during his colleagues wedding. According to wifey, the process can be long is the groom did not managed to recite the vows smoothly, thus having to repeat till he managed to. For wifey’s cousin side, the groom is pretty amazing and seem like he had practice the whole night to get the vow right. The groom only has to recite it once and he got it all right and smooth, earning himself a wonderful and pretty wife.

After the ceremony, it is not convenient for me to stay as it is family time for wifey and his relatives. I then left the place and head home to rest while waiting for wifey’s call.

“Wifey Shaari, I want to marry you.”
Hubby Roger

Swimming

6th May 2009

Today is a very anticipating day. Wifey had promised me the day before that we will go Hotel 81 today to make love. I am kind of desperate also and I do not know why. Considered that me and wifey make love pretty regularly, there is still always a desperate urge in me to want to make love with wifey more and more.

Well, regardless of the urge, I had promised my colleague that we will go exercising before work ends. Wifey came over after his class and gym to look for me and the three of us head to the swimming pool. Wifey waited for me and look after our belongings while I swim. In total I swam 20 laps and then head for the shower. Thereafter we took a cab to Kovan Hotel 81.

During the wait, wifey got moody and unhappy. Mainly because he was bored and there isn’t any entertainment to keep him occupied. However, everything turns out pretty well as we get on the trip to Hotel 81.

The love-making session is damn nice, hot, sexy and nasty. We were all over each other kissing, hugging and fondling each other’s genitals. Wifey sucked my dick as deep as he can while I bite and nibble his nipples as gently as possible. Both of us were very high and wifey soon was asking me to fuck him.

I have been fucking wifey for more than 18 months but even now as we make love and I get ready to fuck him, I still feel nervous and excited as though I am fucking him for the very first time. The insertion of my penis into his anus was a slow and loving gesture and wifey’s moaning reciprocated back to me that he enjoyed my fucking and he accepted my love and return my love with those high and sexy moanings.

Although nowadays my fucking timing has reduced (most likely due to my stamina), wifey and me still enjoy very much the session we had. It was a really hot, nasty sex that we have and we enjoyed it to the max.

“Wifey Shaari, I Love You”
“I want to make-love with you everyday”
Hubby Roger

The Kiss

5th May 2009

Today is a normal day for me and wifey but I had decided to blog it down as I had a sweet experience with wifey.

Wifey and I meet up with each other at Plaza Singapura today after his school hours and my work hours. We went for a good dinner at Café Cartel, one fo our all-time favourite food outlet. Totally enjoy the dinner especially when you are having it with the person you love most in life.

After that we walked to the bus-stop at Sim-Lim Square to take bus 23. Along the way we had a little tiff. Can’t really remember what the argument was about but it certainly made both of us unhappy.

If I had an unhappy tiff why am I blogging it down? It is because after the little tiff, wifey made my day happy again by kissing me in public. Although before he kissed me, wifey checked to make sure nobody was around or looking but still, this means a lot to me when wifey shows his affection for me in the open. I truly felt loved and romantic and that is all that matters to me that day.

“Thank You for the Sweet, Tender Kiss”
“Love You Forever & Ever”
“My One & Only wifey Shaari”
Hubby Roger

Late Night Outing

2nd May 2009

It was a tiring day for me as I had a long day yesterday. Today is another long day as I need to help my sister get the N95 mask for her husband who is leaving for US to work.

I could have rested at home but somehow I am not able to get the rest I needed although I did not go out. By evening, near to night time I borrowed brother’s wish again and head out to fetch wifey. We head to CGH and waited for Ayu to bring the mask down.

After getting the mask, we sent Ayu home to change before we head to my sis’s house to deliver the mask. After that we head to Orchard to meet up with Yazid and Izwan and his boyfriend.

A shocking news I learnt that night… Izwan’s boyfriend is older than me in age but younger than me in look. Damn!! Seriously Izwan’s boyfriend does not look 30s but more to late 20s, wonder what are his secrets to look so youthful at his age.

We sat there for a short while and then head for a movie at Lido catching Wolverine. Pretty nice show but felt that the setting loses out to X-Men II which is my favourite among all three episodes.

After the movie Yazid head home on his motorbike while I sent Ayu home, then wifey before I head home to rest. This is not the first time I went out with wifey and his friends but somehow that night was a bit different. I cannot explain what I felt but it is different, in a good way. Am certainly looking forward to more sessions like this, but of course with me having enough rest.

“Shaari Wifey, I Love You”
Hubby Roger

Early celebration of Mummy's Day

1st May 2009

Cannot believe that me and wifey had a verbal argument early in the morning. The stupidest thing of all is that this argument is totally dumd, plain dumb. We were arguing over timing that cannot be confirmed.

I cannot confirm the timing my sister will be able to pick me and him up while he cannot confirm what time he wants to meet me to buy cake together. Dumb!! Isn’t it?

By the way the cake was meant for my mother as my family was celebrating Mother’s Day in advance. Reason for choosing this holiday is because this is the only day all my other siblings and their family members are free and available. Almost like the last time we took the family portrait.

The argument is pretty heated up and we hang up without resolving it, just allowing both of us to cool down, which we did. Finally we arranged to meet at 5.00pm where I will pick him up at his void deck and then we will head to Tampines Central to get the cake. Luckily things went well after that and smoothly we managed to get a nice cake before my sister drove over to pick us up.

We head to my house first to get some stuff (I do not know what stuff though) before everyone heads to the dinner place at Upper Thomson. The place is right at the end corner, same shop house with the prata shop Casurrina. My sis ordered total of 7 dishes for each table, combination of chicken, vegetables, and seafood. There was only one dish of pork as the maid does not eat pork and rightfully wifey cannot eat too.

The food is great and everyone enjoyed it. Wifey especially like the spicy chicken cubes that was being fried with dried chilli to add in the spiciness and with black sauce to add in the sweetness. It is truly a great dish. However, it’s the last dish that really made everyone drools, the curry crab.

Wifey is actually allergic to seafood and rightfully again, he cannot eat this crab nor its curry sauce. The smell is just too nice, accompanied with its look, somehow wifey gave way to his allergy and made me scoop him a bowl of the sauce (alright, it is only half a bowl) and he started eating the sauce with the friend buns that was ordered along with the curry crab. Wifey totally love the taste and soon he was asking me to scoop another half bowl of sauce for him (that is why I said one bowl just now).

We were all supposed to cut the cake after the food but we did not. Two reasons; first being the place is really busy and with waiting customers, the waitress did not have the time to clear our table just for us to cut cake. Secondly, we were all very full from the food and I believe everyone gains at least one kg extra mass from the food. Thus we head back home to cut the cake.

The process of cutting and eating the cake was really noisy. The living room suddenly turned into a mass-karaoke room and my sisters were singing songs related to mothers to celebrate. Fun, laughter, crazy, and not to mention, noisy. After the singing, the cake was being cut and share. Most of us are still suffering from over-stuffing of food into the stomach, thus each of us really eat a very thin slice of cake and about a third of the cake was left un-touched.

Borrowed my brother’s car after that as all my siblings are driving back to their home and I wanted to spend a little more time with wifey. Under the excuse of watching movie, me and wifey drove out together. We did not have any idea where to go and what to do but it felt great to be together. The decision was made when wifey’s friends called to ask watch horror movie at Downtown East. So we head there and meet up with Izwan, Yazid, Ayu and Faridah. They managed to get us couple seats and it was great.

The movie is terrifying (that’s why it’s call horror show) and wifey shouted a few times. He certainly held my hand super tight also. Anyway not going to record down too much of the show as it is considered unpleasant. After the show, we ate at McDonalds and then I sent the rest home, followed by wifey before I head back home.

It was a really great day and I am so happy to spend so much time with wifey.

“I Love You, My Wifey Shaari”
Hubby Roger

Visiting my FIL

26th April 2009

This would probably be the last entry for the month of April in year 2009. April has been a really quiet month given that wifey was in Bali with his family on the first weekend, doing his Cambodia Post Trip on another and the starting of school preparation. However, something incredible did happen at the end of the month which I believe will greatly enhance the relationship between me and wifey, and also his family members.

The night before, wifey had asked if I am able to borrow my brother’s car but I only managed to get the car key late at night when they head out for fish market around 1.00am in the morning on Sunday. Wifey had made arrangement with Yazid and the rest, Izwan, Faridah and Ayu and we managed to catch a horror Malay movie at E-Hub. It was fun to catch late-night movie with wifey and his friends. Can really hear them shouting when the scary scenes come up. After the movie I sent them home and then drove back to wifey’s home where I hug wifey to sleep.

We woke up early in the morning as we need to get ready to go out with my MIL and Kak Ita, the cousin who is staying with her husband at wifey’s place. I started to play with wifey’s nipples, making me all hard and horny. Most likely the morning erection helps as well and wifey is all hard also. After kissing and licking wifey’s nipples, I started to finger wifey. His hole is so tight and warm, making me even more hard and horny and I am leaking like an open tap.

Soon I was fucking wifey on his bed, but due to the creaky sound and the chances of dirtying the bed sheets, wifey and me decided to take the fuck in his toilet. It was totally arousing and I had always wanted to have a good fuck with wifey standing up in the toilet. That morning I got what I always wanted. I fucked wifey in the toilet with him standing up. We tried a few positions, firstly with wifey standing and bend slightly forward while I pound him from behind. We also tried me sitting down on the toilet seat while he fucked my dick by moving his ass up and down my hard throbbing dick.

The last position we did was my favourite as it was similar to porn. Wifey stood near the toilet seat and had his right leg on top of it making it an open ass. I then fuck wifey from behind while playing with his nipples and sometimes his dick. This position made me very high and also made wifey very high. Both of us can cum anytime soon. I wanted so much to cum inside wifey but I know it will make him feel uncomfortable later when we are out thus I pull out my dick and we jerk together and cum on each other. It was a really good morning fuck and by the time we cummed my back was full of sweat.

We quicky wash up and get ready as we will be going out with MIL and Kak Ita later. I will be driving them to visit someone who I called FIL - Father-In-Law. The only thing about FIL is he’s dead. According to wifey, he and my MIL need to visit FIL as he will soon be evicted from his so-call home and relocate with five other evictees to become room-mates.

Actually, FIL is buried 15 years ago, maybe slightly more but around there. According to the culture, the dead cannot be burnt and can only be buried. As the land in this pathetic little country is limited, the buried people will have to share a common spot after 15 years of burial with five other roomies. MIL and wifey had to visit FIL one last time before FIL had to give up his current hot spot and start to share with five others.

The trip to FIL’s location is a long and winding one. Partly because wifey and MIL had not visited him for a long time. Imagine the journey from far east Tampines to the far west at Jalan Bahar. We also missed certain exit along the way thus it took us almost one full hour to reach the destination. However, what amazed me the most is wifey’s and MIL’s memory when we were at the cemetery looking for FIL’s hot spot. The road inside the Malay Cemetery is like a maze. I guess it’s more like a test for the living in search of their love ones who are buried there. Should they find it with perseverance, it proves their sincerity to visit and remember the dead. Wifey and MIL, and Kak Ita certainly prove to me that they treasure my FIL very much.

When they found FIL’s hot spot, all of us including me alighted to go to his ‘home’ and pay him a visit. MIL was saying prayers and I retreat back into the car so that their family can spend time together. I know it sounds weird but that is the way I show respect for the dead. After all, it’s not like they get to do this every single week or day. Wifey and MIL visited another two hot spots after FIL’s although I am not too sure who are the occupants of the other two hot spots but I guess they are someone even wifey is not too closed with. Especially the third hot spot, MIL did not even go down the car to pay a visit.

After visiting all the three hot spots, we head to IMM Jurong to eat breakfast and also to shop. The breakfast is good and delicious, especially when one is sharing with the other that he loves, in this case, me and wifey. After breakfast, we split up for shopping, me and wifey while my MIL with Kak Ita.

Shopping at IMM is not fun as many shops are boring. They are either selling stuff that both of us are not interested else will be stuff that can be gotten at any other place. I have to admit even Tampines has got better shopping centres. One thing did catch the attention of wifey’s eyes though. A pair of jeans from Esprits. That pair of jeans is low cut thus will be very sexy when wore. The thigh area is very tight and the cut is supposed to make the person wearing it bring out his ass. Wifey had wanted the jeans for himself as it was on offer selling only at thirty bucks. Too bad they did not have his size but they do have mine and so in the end, I became the owner of one pair of these sexy jeans.

Finally when there is nothing much else to shop, we meet up with MIL and Kak Ita and head for the car. I then drive all of them back to Tampines. As the time was still early, MIL and Kak Ita requested to go woodlands to visit wifey’s grandma. It is not an issue thus we proceed to my GMIL’s house. MIL of cause will be gossiping with my GMIL, and also Kak Ita. Wifey stays with me most of the time to keep me company. It was still boring though as there was nothing to do but read newspaper. They were gossiping in the kitchen and in Malay thus it was not possible for me to know what they are talking about.

I must have fallen asleep at some time because of the boredom. I was suddenly jolt awaken and found that Kak Ita was sitting beside me. It was really embarrassing as it kind of make me look uninterested with wifey’s family members. Guess MIL noticed and was unhappy, thus making the request to leave the house early to head back home. Though I am not sure how true my instincts are on this take but I do sense unhappiness from my MIL.

Finally when I sent them home, I am kind of tire out as well. Although MIL did thank me but I can’t forgive myself for the rudeness in GMIL’s house. Well, hope I will get invited again and the next time I will not make the same mistake again.

“Wifey Shaari, I Love You”
“Forever & Ever”
Hubby Roger

Corelation vs. Causation

25th April 2009

This month has not been pretty exciting and this blog has been getting less exciting too. I realized that I have been updating less stuff onto the blog. Not too sure if it is co-related to my relationship with my wifey or if that is a causation of our relationship.

I have been meeting up with wifey pretty often. Usually after my work or after his school hours if he is off early I will try to meet him. He has always tried his best to suit to my timing to meet me up as well. Thus, if we meet so much, there should be stuff to update but somehow there is not much.

Maybe I am out of words. I read the past postings and found that I am bored by most of them. My ability to write funny stuff seems to be deteriorating as I aged. Not too sure if that is normal. That is also the reason I had decided to not share with wifey about this blog. It will bore him and I do not want to strike him as a boring husband with poor blog-writing ability, even if I really am.

April is gonna be over soon in a week and I am not too sure how the month can be remembered more specially for both me and wifey. Our routine nowadays seems ‘routine’. When we meet, the talk is less and the eating is normal. The intimacy time is less when we are out together. I understand the part where by wifey refuse to act too intimate with me when we are outside, as he is afraid his relatives might be anywhere and may see. What I do not understand is that the way wifey talks to me and treats me.

It’s not that he is treating me bad or talking to me bad but somehow I felt that he can talk to me in a sweeter mode and sometimes I felt really disappointed when he talked to me as if I am not even someone worth giving respect. I am really hoping that he can talk to me in a better way he talks to other people like his colleagues, classmates or his Ben10. I know it is stupid of me to compare but somehow I wished for the person I loved most to treat me special regardless we are alone or with his friends. And when I mean special I mean it in the nice way and not the bullying way.

Anyway I think I am off my focus as this blog is suppose to record my feelings on the way I post and to reflect if this is due to personal incompetence or the lacking of ‘something’ in my relationship. Corelation vs. Causation. It is difficult to differentiate and I am also pretty lost on this.

I am quite sure though that I love wifey deeply with all my heart and soul and I can feel that wifey loves me too. There is no doubt about our affection towards each other. However, something is amiss and I am not sure what it is. I can feel that the puzzle is missing a piece and yet that piece has not yet been found. I know this sounds crazy but I know what I am feeling.

Both me and wifey loves each other but we lack of something that can strengthen our love and make it a concrete one. Right now, we are like cement powder and water mixed together. We are still in the liquid form and not stabilized. There are so many uncertainties and we lack of a substance that can make our relationship concrete and stable. As for what substance, that is what I need to find out.

This month has been hectic as both of us were pretty broke and we are not able to have the kind of lifestyle we want but soon things will change. I am going to take up more responsibility in my work and that would means less timing available for my wifey. This may be a good change as I hope that wifey will miss me more and treasure me now that I have less time with him. At least, treasure whatever time we have together.

This will even be more so when I took up my further studies next year. Am not sure how this will compromise my relationship with wifey but I have to try. I need to know that I will be treasured by the person I love most.

“I love You Wifey Shaari.”
Hubby Roger

Changes

19th April 2009

It is a sunny and clear day but my mood was cloudy and moody. I knew the reason perfectly why I am feeling this way. This is not the first time I felt it and this definitely will net be the last time that I will be feeling it.

Yesterday, I met up with wifey after my work to pick him up from school. I sent him home for a short rest as we planned to head for the gathering at his colleague Faridah’s house. I had been there a couple of times with wifey and Faridah knew me also. As we were both very tire, we fell asleep and only woke up around 6.00pm to get ready and leave home to meet Yazid and Thedy at Tampines Central before we hail a cab to Faridah’s house.

When we reached, we were the latest already and we started eating and joking. It was great and I knew wifey had missed his colleagues a lot and he is definitely having a great time.

The plan earlier was to leave around midnight, preferably before as I need to see him home and head home myself later. However, the thing with wifey is that, the plan always change. However, I guess the atmosphere is so great that wifey ‘asked’ me what to do. Judging from the way wifey ‘asked’, I knew what he wants and he knows exactly how I will give in to him.

This is the part that I sometimes felt disappointed with him. He knows what he should do but to get what he wants, he ‘asked’ me with the kind of tone and look that makes me decide something that will make him happy, knowing very well I wanted to make him happy. So, we stayed and watch DVDs. After one show, past midnight and he wanted to carry on a second DVD with them. Knowing that I am freaking tire, all he suggests is for me to sleep in that noisy living room and on a thin mattress called temporary bed. As if I can get a good rest on it.

I was seriously pretty upset about his ‘sensitivity’ last night until he suggested something to make up for it. He suggested that I stayed over and in the morning, he will come over to my place and wait for me to get ready before we head off to my friend’s baby shower together. Well, that somehow made me less upset as there is something to look forward to.

In the morning just today when he woke up and woke me up, from the look of his face I knew the latest plan is going to change. And as I predicted, he told me if I mind to go home first and pick him up later if I got car.

That question totally ruins my whole day of anticipated good mood. No doubt he gave a perfectly understandable reason, that his grandmother was here and he did not want his mother to nag. Strangely, I also felt that there will be further changes to our plan. Since he is not coming over first, the prior plan is after the baby shower, he comes over to my house. I also predicted that he will tell me that he needs to go home early for some reasons.

Sometimes, I felt that I am a really male-witch with promotion powers. I cannot see the future but I can read it and true as it is… wifey called after I reached home to tell me that he cannot go home late. My mood now is totally sucky and how I wished now that I had never ever invited him to go with me to the baby shower.

The thing I dislikes most is always the change of plan to his schedule and his pleasure without even thinking for me how I will feel. It is as though I am a human being blessed without the emotions of upset, anger or disappointment. Sometimes I wished I can be like that…

“Love You Wifey”
Hubby Roger

Virgin Trip to Double-O

10th April 2009

It is a tough day today as sri and Yazid had planned a surprise gathering for wifey tonight to celebrate his birthday. I am supposed to bring wifey out and pretend I do not know a single thing which is the difficult part… I sucks at lying.

When I met wifey in the evening and brought him around Bugis, wifey was grumbling on the way. Reason being he was hungry and his tummy is giving him a painful time. Knowing Sri and the gang, they are seldom punctual and that makes things really tough. On one hand I am damn worried about wifey’s tummy condition and I do not want him to feel pain due to hunger. On the other hand, the timing Sri planned is very late and thus wifey is very unhappy with me during that period of time.

The spoiler for the night is a friend of Kat’s. We ran into her and she just blurt out that Kat and Brandon is nearby and ask if wifey is supposed to meet them. The cat is almost out of the bag and then we ran into Izwan and his bf also… the surprise is not that surprising anymore if later wifey saw the few of them.

When the time is near, and I brought wifey to Brecko Café, Kat and Brandon are sitting there waiting already. When we sat down, Sri just arrived with Yana. As usual, Nana and her young partner came late. Izwan and bf waited for Yazid before going to get wifey a birthday present thus when they come, the rest had finished dinner and desert.

Took a couple of pictures and the rest gossip slightly. As the time goes later, we parted our own ways. Me, wifey, Sri and Yazid went Double-O to celebrate wifey’s ITE friend’s birthday. The rest went home.

The celebration is fun and I actually drank quite a lot. Wifey was not feeling well but joined in the fun as and when. The birthday gerl is really drunk just after one hour we got there. Quite a scene. At the end, me and wifey helped took their stuff back to wifey’s house while Sri stayed back to helped look after the birthday gerl.

Similarly we sneak into wifey’s house and I spent the night there. I am actually horny but wifey is not feeling well, so we just sleep again. The next morning when wifey open his bedroom door to sneak me out, we both got a fright as his cousin was standing in front of his bedroom asking for a comb. Eventually I sneak out and even though his cousin saw me, she did not probe anything further. Lucky for us.

“Wifey Shaari, hope you recover soon.”
“Muacks Muacks I Love You.”
Hubby Roger

Night @ BackStage

9th April 2009

Wifey and me will be meeting up with my colleagues from another centre tonight. We planned to go chill out at one of the gay hand out place called BackStage.

Backstage was located at the centre of Chinatown. It is a pub where gay men hang out. Maybe I should say slighter more mature men and Caucasians… guess that’s where my male colleague met his ‘husband’.

Before we met up with this colleague of mine, we had arranged to meet my other two female straight colleagues from the other centre as well. We met at The Central at Clark Quay to have dinner together before we took a walk to wait for my other male gay colleague before we head to the BackStage together. When we reached my male colleague’s ‘husband‘ is already there drinking.

Well… the place is pretty small but cozy also. The drinks are not that strong in alcohol as my colleague described. I had to add in a bit of the Vodka that I brought along secretly so that wifey will like the taste slightly more. When my colleague took a sip of the drink we ordered, he was shocked that it was so strong but he did not know we added vodka on our own.

We did not stay long as the place was kind of boring to me. It might be cozy as mentioned but it also gives me a sleazy feeling. I can see a couple of old Caucasians paired with young boys and it is so obvious that those boys are money-boys. Who will fall in love with an old Caucasian who is not even good looking or having a fantasitic built? It’s the real world.

We left the place around midnight and went our separate ways. My male colleague and his ‘husband’ left for Tantric, another gay pub when the drinks are so call stronger because it is double-shot. Me and wifey did not follow as I know that place is also well-known for picking up guys for one night stand and I hate the idea of going there and met someone that had ONS with wifey before.

The other two female colleagues went out together for their own programme and since me and wifey do not have any night plan, we head home instead. As the time is late we head for his house and he sneak me into his room to rest for the night. Normally we would make love but for that night we slept together hugging each other and surprisingly we fell asleep without any sexual urges. It is a very sweet night and we both rested really peacefully. When I woke up in the morning, wifey sneak me out and my MIL did not even know I spent a night with her son.

“Wifey Shaari, I Love You”
“Hubby Roger

Happy Birthday to Wifey Shaari

5th April 2009

Today is wifey’s 25th birthday. Wifey is in Bali now with his family and I missed him very badly. Singapore is raining most of the time and I wonder if weather in Bali is sunny and hot for wifey to tour around of it is like the weather here.

Sometimes I am really upset. I know wifey does not have auto-roam and he needs to concentrate on his trip with his family. But seriously when he did not call or even send me an sms it makes me worried and scared. Afterall I am not able to know if something happened to him. It is almost similar when he was in Cambodia until I sent him a very unhappy and unfriendly sms to remind him to sms me at least once a day.

I am supposed to be celebrating with wifey on his special day today but somehow I am not able to because we are miles apart from each other. I do not know what is wrong with me but I am just feeling so depressed. Until now, I still do not know how much I meant to wifey in his life. Sometimes he gave me the feeling that I am just another phase and another partner that’s all… I can be there and he will be happy and if I am not there so be it…

Maybe it all started when I allowed him to go Cambodia. Now he form so closed relationships with his Cambodia trip friends they call themselves Ben10 and I felt that I lost a part of him which I will never be able to recover…

And now to make things worse, his cousin and spouse is going to stay at his place for the time being, maybe forever in fact and I will not be able to visit him or spend a night with him at his home again. Even though he had brought up the pros and cons but somehow I felt that the cons seems to be on the higher grounds.

Today is wifey’s 25th birthday…
Today is also a depressing day for me…
Today is definitely a day filled with tears and sadness…

“Happy 25th Birthday Wifey Shaari”
“I Love You”
“Always”
Hubby Roger

March 2009

31st March 2009

March 2009 has been a hectic month for me and wifey. There are not many postings because of all the things that happened. Not that they are unhappy events but when wifey is out of Singapore for a good two weeks, the mood to write down my feelings are just not there. The two weeks without wifey really made me realised how much he meant to me.

After wifey's Cambodia trip, I also felt kind of losing him in someway. Perhaps it was the strong bond he created with his friends in Cambodia. Wifey told me during that two weeks they are really dependent on each other. I didn't like that. It is not like I did not approval of him having good friends but I am kind of hoping that me and him can share an experience like that, dependent on each other, rather he having the experience with friends he just get to know less than a month. Maybe this is what people call jealousy... although I am not sure why I am even jealous of his friends when most of them knew he is gay and he is with me...

Another issue in March is my planning for wifey. With wifey going Bali in a few days time, I am pretty upset. Partly that I will not be able to celebrate his 25th Birthday with him on the 5th April. I has always imagined this day how I am going to celebrate with him since his last birthday. I had planned to booked a nice hotel room so that we can spend the whole day there and spend a romantic night together. Wifey will check in the hotel discovering a really nice bouquet of roses on the bed with a self-made birthday card and a nice, tasty birthday cake on the writing table. His friends will all be invited and give him a surprise when he read the birthday card and all of us will spend the evening drinking and cam-whoring. However, all these plans will be trashed when his family announced to him that he will be following them to Bali. Hope he enjoys himself there then...

"I am going to miss you again my Wifey Shaari"

Hubby Roger

Back in my Arms :)

20th March 2009

Finally, after a long waiting time of two weeks, 14 days, wifey will be coming back home to Singapore. For the past two weeks, life has been very hard. With the bad reception and slow internet access in Cambodia, me and wifey literally had very little communication. The total sms exchanged and total minutes of phone calls I exchange with wifey add up to less than 20 sms and 10 minutes of talk time. All this pain-staking time will be gone in a few more hours and I will count down.

Early morning, I went back office to settle the rest of my work before I left for Hotel Ibis at Bencoolen. Me and wifey had earlier booked a room for the day till the next day to celebrate his return. Other than me, nobody else knows that he will be returning to Singapore today. This is to avoid interruption from family and friends so that we can both spend quality time together.

After checking in to the hotel room, I made my way to T2. Wifey’s flight will be touching down SG at 1300 hours. As usually there will be delays and by the time wifey came out of the belt with his luggage, it was already 1345 hours. Helped them to take a group photo before we head off to our hotel room for private moments.

Once inside the room, kissing and hugging wifey are my only actions for at least 15 minutes. I really really miss wifey a lot and I am not going to let go of him so easily. I want to make it up for the two weeks worth of kiss and hug that was lost due to his trip. Wifey is still as sexy as before and with a new tann, he is even more attractive than before. We went for a shower together before we made-love on the bed passionately.

Making love after enduring two weeks is not a joke. We took our time slowly to tease each other and explore each other’s body thoroughly as though it was our first time. We took our time and we fuck slow and deep. I did not cum inside wifey as we will be watching a show together later and I do not want him to experience tummy pain whenever I cum inside him. Still both of us shoot a really big load on top of wifey’s tummy.

After making-love and washing up, we took a little nap. I woke up a bit early to iron the clothing for wifey and myself as we are meeting Andy and Agent J for dinner. Thereafter we head out and walk all the way to Marina Square Hong Kong Café for dinner. As we were rather late, we are not able to finish our last dish, which has not even arrived. Still we head off to the Esplanade to catch the stand-up comedy by Kumar.

The show is supposed to be 100 minutes in length and it is in fact 100 minutes slightly more. The price paid for is totally worth it as Kumar really made wifey laugh with his jokes till wifey had tears in his eyes. Time really past fast when people are happy and the showed ended soon when we thought there is more of it. Guess happy times just do not last as long.

After the show, we walked around Esplanade and then head to The Cathay to watch the movie “Race to With Mountain” We were planning to watch the horror Thai movie but the seats are limited. Although I know this is not the movie wifey prefers to watch but I really am happy that he watched it with me. I know wifey is very tire as he did not catch enough sleep on the way back but he wants to keep his promise to keep me company as long as possible and that makes me really feel that he loves me a lot. Thank you wifey.

After the movie, we walked back and as both of us are really tire out by then (almost 2 a.m. in the morning) and in no time, we feel asleep with me hugging wifey to our dreamland…

“Forever Love You”
“Wifey Shaari B Sapari”
Hubby Roger

I Miss You

14th March 2009

It has been 8 days since wifey left for Cambodia. It has been a very depressing 8 days. Almost everyday I waited patiently for his call as he only has time to call me at night. Everyday I worried if he is alright at Cambodia. And everyday, I missed wifey badly.

No Calls...

8th March 2009

Today is the 3rd day wifey is in Cambodia for his school Youth Expedition Project. He had not called or sms me for the whole day. The last call I received from him was yesterday around 7.00pm and now I am worried.

I had disabled the security code for my sim card in case he forgot them thus even if he reset the phone, it can be used straight away. I tried calling but the phone is turned off. I have totally no idea what he was doing and how he was.

I am so damn worried because he might be ill, he might be injured, he might have gotten into some accident and there is no one to contact me or inform me. I really has no idea what happened.

I had already sent him an sms. Although in the sms I am angry and unhappy that he did not contact me, I am in fact more worried than anything. The worst feelings one can have is not knowing the well being of the person that he care and love most.

I hope wifey will at least sms me to let me know he is safe everyday...

"I Love You Wifey"

"Please call or sms back soon"

Hubby Roger

Singapore Zoological Garden

22nd February 2009

Am having a date with wifey today to the Singapore Zoological Garden. It has been a long time since wifey visited the zoo and it has been an even longer time for me since my last visit two decades ago. Since wifey was nagging a few days back that I have never dated him to such places, I guess it would be a romantic day to visit the zoo today.

We met early in the morning at Ang Mo Kio. There is a direct bus to the zoo from there. Before we took the bus, we head to Subway for breakfast. The initial plan is to eat at Café Cartel but wifey got it mixed up. There is no Café Cartel, it was New York New York instead. After having our breakfast at Subway we proceed to take the bus to the zoo. It was not crowded and the trip was faster than we expected. By around 1030, we had arrived at the zoo.

In no time, we bought the tickets and went inside. We did not buy the tram tickets as we had planned to walk all the way. We were both excited as it has been such a long time and wifey had always wanted to come to the zoo again. We took our time to walk slowly and enjoy the scenery, as well as the animals. Most of the animals are sleeping in the afternoon, something both me and wifey envy.

We did not catch any feeding time show as we will have to wait a long time. Instead, we went for animal show instead and managed to catch two of the shows. One of them featured the performance of a very intelligent seal. The seal knows how to balance ball on his nose, knows how to clap his flippers and how to impress the audience watching him.

The other show we managed to watch aims to educate audience to protect the nature and the animals. A variety of animals performed together to form a short yet entertaining story. At the end of this show, wifey also managed to take a few pictures of cute fluffy ducks waddling in the water.

One of the animals, or should I say reptile… that catches our attention is the alligator. It is really long in length and huge in size. Most important, the bite-force of the alligator is the strongest amongst other ferocious animals such as shark, bear, wolf, lion and tiger. Seeing the big and terrifying creature swim in the water really gives us a chilling feeling.

We spent about 3 hours plus at the zoo and when it was time to go back, the weather started to drizzle. We continued our way to the bus stop and took the bus back to Ang Mo Kio. We managed to catch a movie before we head for Chinatown.

We went Chinatown because the last time we made-love in Hotel 81, I left the lubricant there accidentally. So now we are heading to Chinatown, Sportsmanasia to buy a new bottle of lube. After that we head back to Tampines. After I sent wifey home, I went back to rest. It was a really happy day to spend time with wifey without any disturbance (phone calls, sms etc)

“Wifey Shaari I Love You”
Hubby Roger

Happy Valentine's Day

14th February 2009

Today is Valentine’s Day. It is supposed to be a romantic day for couples but somehow I am not even sure if I will be spending any moment with wifey. Reason being he is now having his exams and thus need a lot of time to study. Also with his relatives currently moving into his house, the chance to spend time with him alone at his house is minimized.

The only hope he has given me is possible chance in the afternoon whereby his family and relatives could be heading out for a picnic. That will be the only chance for us to spend time alone together in his house.

By around 1.00 pm in the afternoon, I was already impatience of waiting. When wifey called to tell me they might be heading out soon, I quickly head to the shower and get myself ready. Wifey had told me that he will call me before his family and relatives go off but I have other plans. I left home early to head for Bedok without informing wifey. I wanted to buy flowers for wifey and so far Bedok gives the best offer.

When I reached Bedok, the market that sells the flowers is under renovation. There are also other shops that sell flowers but their pricings are very steep. Just imagine, one stalk of lily is five dollars but if you want decoration, one stalk will be at twenty-five dollars. I had the intention to get six stalks of lilies for wifey but I felt that spending one-hundred and fifty dollars on 6 stalks of lilies is silly and I know wifey will agree with me on this.

In the end I went over to wifey’s house without any flowers. His family and relatives went for picnic at around four in the afternoon. When I reached, we kissed and hugged. We really miss each other badly. Although there is no flower, wifey was not upset. He understood that the price for the flowers was not worth it as it was been jet up a lot. The same amount of money spent on flower on Valentine’s Day could let us have at least two nice and decent meals.

In no time, we proceed to his bed room for hot, nasty sex. It started with foreplay of course and lots of kissing and hugging. Am not going to describe what we did here of course. After we made-love, we clean up and rest for a short while. Both of us were tired and hungry. A lot of energy was used during our love-making session. We then proceed to the neighbourhood for dinner. Thereafter, I sent wifey home before I head home to rest.

I am very happy that day. It’s not because I get to make-love with wifey but I get to meet him for a proper dinner. This to me is more important and meaningful than just love-making on special occasions.

“I Love You Wifey Shaari”
“Now & Forever”
Hubby Roger

Happy 18th Anniversary

12th February 2009

Today is my 18th month anniversary with wifey.

18 months ago, I met wifey online in IRC chatroom. I was unhappy and horny while he was upset and horny (that’s what he told me). He had went clubbing and drinking the night before we met to reduce his misery.

When we met, the intention was such sex. We wanted to just vent our unhappiness via physical pleasure. Somehow, it turned out more than what we were seeking. There seem to have a connection between us even before we have sex.

After we have sex, I am still not sure of the feeling I had. It was funny and I never felt like that before even though I was still in a relationship. I just felt different.

Maybe it’s just the sex, I told myself. I wanted to know if it I was right and I hoped I will be wrong about it. I got my wish. It turned out that I kind of fell in love with wifey. Maybe it is because of the unhappiness I am experiencing while I was in that previous relationship. Regardless, I want this relationship with wifey to work and last forever.

We went through a long way before we get together as an official couple. The road was not easy. I almost lost him twice. Once was when I was been forced to choose between him and my ex-bf. The second time was when I thought he cheated on me.

I do not want to lose wifey because I love him very very much.

Happy Anniversary Wifey Shaari
I Love You
with all of my heart
Hubby Roger

p/s: just for the record... I ever peeped at wifey's phone in the past and he put me as 'RogerGoodFuck' in his contact :)

Lunar New Year with Wifey

26th to 27th January 2009

Today is the first day of Lunar New Year. I woke up afresh since I fell asleep last night pretty early. First thing when I was up is to wash-up and then grab two nice and big Mandarin Oranges and give blessings to my mum. She had woken up much earlier than me and the rest of the family members. My brother and sister-in-law are still sleeping and thus I will have to wait to give them blessings with the Mandarin Oranges.

While waiting for them I prepared my clothing to be worn later while visiting my elders. I had actually prepared them yesterday night but it was crumbled again after I left them on the bed and slept on it. However, it was not a difficult task since I am pretty good at ironing nowadays, thanks to wifey.

When my baju is ready my brother and sis-in-law are up as well. I gave them the blessings and they in return gave me a red packet. Now I have 9 red packets in total just from my family. There after I went kitchen to take breakfast. The whole family will be eating vegetarian in the morning to show respect to the gods that we pray.

I went back to my room waiting for wifey's call wondering if he has got a good night's sleep. My brother and sis-in-law had gotten dressed and drove the kids to the in-laws to give them blessings and greetings for the Lunar New Year. This is the routine yearly and it usually takes about 2 hours. Thereafter they will come back and drove me and mum together with all the kids to visit my elder uncle and my aunty.

By the time the visiting is done, it was about 2.00pm in the afternoon. My sisters are also on the way to our house to give mum blessings, which I have to give them too since they gave me red packets. All my siblings arrived one after another and by around 3.30pm, most of them are here except for my 2nd sister and 3rd sister. Since my condo sis is here I borrowed her car and proceed to fetch wifey.

Wifey had done up the hamper he prepared for my mum. It is very beautifully done and I am so proud of him. When we reached my house, I have to proceed to give blessing to my other two sisters who arrived during my absence. Wifey gave the hamper to my mum and use the Mandarin Oranges I prepared for him to give blessings to my mum. Of course he was given red packets by my siblings and my mum also.

After that we joined my siblings for a fun game of blackjack (money involved). Since wifey is not suppose to gamble, he sat beside me while I play. Once in a while he will take the cards and play as well. It was fun as this is the only time the family hold no prejudice against one another and money is not the main issue of quarrel.

At the end of the game, we did not win any money neither did we lose any money. The situation was a tie for us. My condo sis loses the most while her winnings are mostly channeled to my eldest sis's kids who are playing with us.

Around 6 plus my siblings had to leave since they will need to get home to prepare in case there are people visiting them. Also my brother planned to go Chinatown for a walk with my mum and all. Me and wifey have our own plans so we proceed to the kitchen to have dinner first (steamboat again).

After the dinner me and wifey head out to his place as we need to get ready for a night of clubbing. As we leave, my aunty came to visit my mum. I did not stay back to entertain them as I do not really like them as well. ME and wifey just head straight for cab to his place where we prepare our baju and also rest for a short while.

We took a cab and pick up Brendan on the way, there after heading to St. James. It was the last night for Fabulous before they relocate. There is a long queue despite the fact that we reached early around 10.30pm. Luckily my colleague Matthew and his boyfriend are already in the queue and we joined them, saving us some time.


While waiting wifey saw my friend Kai-Xin and her husband. Wifey recognize them as he accompanied me to their wedding dinner. Guess the secret is out when they saw me and wifey together as well as Matthew and his bf. However, they did not ask too much and this seem like nothing to them. Very obvious as Kai-Xin's friends who are with them are both PLUs and their manners so telling people that they are.

Matthew's bf is an ang-mo but he is very friendly. Although the queue was long, he waited patiently with all of us. However, he was unhappy about the service quality as he has to wait 20 minutes to get his bill when he purchases a jug of vodka lime. He told me that this is very unacceptable as it is way too slow and inefficient.

Later on as we want to go dance floor he had also refused to join us. In the end only me and wifey and Matthew are on the dance floor. As the place is very very pack, we hardly get to dance happily. Matthew went up the platform to dance. He wanted to drag me and wifey up but we are too shy hahaha. Left him alone while we dance to each other. Matthew appeared after about 45 minutes later and proceeds to look for his bf. Guess his bf did not enjoy Fabulous much as they left pretty soon after that.

Me and wifey stayed and we also bumped into Kai-Xin again where they offered us shots (big glass) and vodka. They always like to make me drink and get drunk like the old times. Luckily this time round wifey can help me finish the drinks. Me and wifey head to another room where he ordered long island drink. We took pictures together with Kai-Xin and her husband and one of their friends. Then we proceed back to their table. When we reached, they are about to leave thus now really left me and wifey alone to enjoy the night.

We head to the dance floor and this time round we did not leave the place. We dance to the music (sometimes nice only) and there are a few times when they pop stripes of paper on top for party effects. The highlight is when the balloons on top are released, that makes the crowd goes crazy. I managed to catch one of the balloons to give wifey which he held on to dance.

We also saw some gross men dancing on the stage. We classified them gross because firstly they are definitely old and not attractive, secondly they got no figure, and lastly they are dancing ugly!! One of them with a tummy even wore his jeans to low that when he came down the stage, everyone can see his half-exposed butt-crack.


When the music comes near to an end, we head out of Fabulous as we want to beat the crowd to the road. I guess most people do that thus in the end we still need to wait for cabby with a lot of the crowd waiting as well. Luckily for us, one of the cabbies only wants to go Tampines, which is the way for us and thus our wait for not long at all.

We went straight to MacDonald and had breakfast there before we head home to sleep. We will be having another long day thus will need the rest. It did not take us long to fall asleep beside each other until morning 10 plus then we wake up.

Once we are up, we laze around for a while before we washed up and get ready our clothes. We will be going my 3rd sister house at Tampines for food and game. We have another round of steamboat lunch this time before we start the game of blackjack where wifey sat in front while I sat behind him on the right. He has officially joined our family of gamblers and he is enjoying it.

There is a lot of laughter during the game since we did not emphasize on the money but on the process of playing with family members. We did lose quite an amount at first but managed to recuperate our lost and win a couple of dollars. When the game ended around 6 plus, I accompanied wifey to take cab home. Then I proceed back to my sis house and play TABOO with my nephews and nieces.

Wifey needs to go back early partly because he has to rush his projects and also MIL will be coming back from Batam tonight. I have spent a very happy 4 days and 3 nights with wifey (23rd night to 27th evening) and I really feel so lucky to have such a wonderful and sociable wifey by my side.

“Wifey Shaari, thank you for the wonderful time.”
“Nahigugma ako kanimo”
Hubby Roger

Thirty-Two

25th January 2009

Finally after 365 days, it is my birthday again. This year however, is slightly different as my birthday falls on the eve of Lunar New Year. This is both a blessing and a dilemma.

Blessing is because I know that I have many siblings and they will usually give me additional red packets since tomorrow is the actual LNY, thus I will have more financial income for the month. Dilemma is because I will not be able to spend the whole day with wifey since I will need to be at home for reunion dinner.

Me and wifey woke up in the late morning beside each other. We had a good night sleep and we had spent time together since yesterday afternoon. Both of us are happy and I am really very in love with my wifey. We spend a lazy morning with wifey cooking breakfast for me and we surf the net together for a short while.

Then out of a surprise, wifey took out something from the storeroom and hand it to me. It is my birthday present. It is a big photo frame and since wifey pass it to me with the back of the frame facing me, I am not sure what it was. When i turned it to the front, I saw a caricature of me in front of the legendary Charmed house and a nice Charmed logo at the top right corner of the caricature.

Am so touched. Charmed has been my favourite TV series of all time and now I feel like I am part of the Charmed sisters' life. Wifey certainly has given me a good birthday present and I am going to hang this picture in my room such that everyone can see it the moment they walked into my room.

I had asked wifey how much he spent on this present but he refused to tell me. Since he did not want me to know, I did not find out also. Although I had provided the link above, I did not go into the link on that website that feature the prices and charges for doing caricature. This is the best I can offer my deepest gratitude and respect to my wifey.

One thing however was missing. Birthday Card. It is something which I looked forward from wifey. This year, wifey did not prepare any card for my birthday as he was busy with school and the activities from his school. I can understand that thus i tried my best to hide the slight disappointment over this. I hoped next year I get a self-made birthday card from wifey.

There after we went to buy stuff together for wifey's Cambodia YEP. We walked around the neighbourhood and bought the necessary items which we had discussed yesterday. I also bought some stuff with my own money as a donation to the kids in Cambodia. There after I helped wifey bring the stuff back before I myself took cab back home.

Back at home, I missed wifey a lot. Although I know wifey will be coming down tomorrow to my house but the feeling of lost is there. However, I also need to spend time with my family especially my siblings are planning to celebrate my birthday today. My youngest sis had bought me a present and all of them shared a big birthday cake for me.


When most of the siblings had arrived, the kids (my nephews and nieces) sang birthday song for me and I cut the cake. It has been at least 20 years since I get to cut birthday cake at home. Am feeling very happy but similarly I wished wifey was with me also. After the cake cutting, my other three sisters each gave me a red packet for my birthday and all four of them gave me the Lunar New Year red packet as well. Including mum's red packet, I have a total of 8 red packets already and I know each of them has at least fifty bucks inside them.

It was a tiring night and by around 12 midnight I had dozed off with my lappy on the chair. Wifey had reminded me to off my msn and lappy but I guess his reminder did not work out as well as we both want to.

Can't wait for tomorrow where wifey will come down to my place and meet my family again...

“Happy Birthday to Me”
“Wifey, I LOVE YOU”
“Ya tabe kahayu”
Hubby Roger

Before 32

24th January 2009

Today is the eve of my birthday. Me and wifey had planned days ago that I will be staying over at his place tonight since MIL is out of Singapore to Batam for a couple of days. To be honest I am very very excited as it has been a really long time since I get to stay-over with wifey.

I woke up pretty early to help my mum with some household chores since tomorrow will be Lunar New Year's Eve and she has quite a lot of things to do. By around 12.00 noon I am done with most of the things and headed off to wifey's house.

Wifey and me have plans for a romantic day since it was the eve of my birthday but somehow the plans were been cancelled after we fell asleep together. What was planned to be a 15 minutes nap turn out to be about 4 hours of sleeping time in the afternoon. However, it was a good sleep as we hug each other and felt the warmness of each other's body during the sleep. That is really quality sleep.

Since we slept through the afternoon, we are left with the night to spend wakening time together. We then decided to go for movie marathon. Browsing through the website, we decided to watch Bride Wars at Golden Village Tampines Mall followed by Love Matters at Century Square.

Both movies are very nice and after the movie we walked back to Tampines West CC MacDonald's to eat the Prosperity Burger before we head home to sleep. This is a really nice day with wifey spending time the whole afternoon and night with him. Although throughout the day we fell asleep and we are going to sleep again after the movie but it is really nice.

Having someone to hold in my arms to sleep, knowing that the person I love most is lying next to me on the bed and once in a while when I toss and turn I feel his body next to me. Able to hear him snore and knowing he is sleeping soundly, hugging him once in a while sleeping and giving him a peck on his cheek while he is asleep... all of these makes my day already.

"Love You Wifey Shaari."
"M'bi fe"
Hubby Roger

Dreams Reunion Dinner

23rd January 2009

It has been almost 2 weeks since the last blog. Things have been pretty busy but calm for both me and wifey. We did have slight argument but things got ironed out and we are as loving as before and maybe even more. Sometimes I wondered if we should quarrel more as that seems to enhance our relationship... but then during the quarrel process we are both very unhappy and that can last a couple of hours.

Tonight wifey will be coming to my workplace for a reunion dinner. All my colleagues and ex-colleagues will be coming as well. Wifey has been to my workplace a few times and get to know my current colleagues. He had also passed one of my colleagues a bottle of pineapple tarts made by my MIL.

When I reached office, me and my colleague started to get the food ready by defrosting them and cutting them into small portion for easy consumption. We also set up the table and chairs and have the cutlery ready for everyone who is coming later. Estimated will have about 15 pax. Halfway, I attended to my client for her counselling session and after that my colleague went out to collect the birthday cake for the January babies.

By around 7.00pm, everything has been set up and about 60% of the people had turn-up. Only left with wifey and also another 2 couples who are late. As the time is running late, we started off with the yu-sheng and we did a lo-hei with some of our clients (youths) who are in the centre. It was fun and everyone ate a bit of the yu-sheng for good luck.

After that we proceed to the steamboat and BBQ. It was fun but can see that everyone was shy at first and none of them dare to sit down to enjoy the steamboat. There are really a lot of foods (thanks to my boss) and once we started, things go on smooth and in no time, more people sat down to eat and talk. When wifey came, there is just one seat left next to me (I reserved for him) and so sat beside me and ate the food.

The actual turn-up results to exactly 15 pax including my boss's baby. The amazing thing is that almost everyone seems to have brought a partner along for some reason. For me, of course wifey is my partner. What caught my attention is my ex-colleague whom I suspected is a lesbian, brought a very pretty gal along with her. And most shocking is my currently male colleague as he brought back with him not only the cake but also a guy who is obviously gay and feminine.

Halfway eating, when me and wifey were kind of alone, we were discussing if that guy is my male colleague's partner. However, there is no way of proving and I did not intend to find out more since it is their private lives which they intend to keep it private. The only difference between them and us is the obvious care and concern I gave to wifey. I was taking food and soup for wifey and helping him in small chores for the steamboat dinner while my male colleague and his friend did their own things and mingle with other people without much conversation. In fact, it was this 'non-friendly' gesture that made me suspects that they are a pair, acting as much as possible that they are not.

After the food and when my boss's husband arrived we then proceed to bring out the cake that was kindly sponsored by my male colleague. According to wifey, that cake is not only very expensive but it is very tasty. The cake was brought from CANELE, and the chef is my male colleague's friend, that's why he wanted to sponsor the cake. The group then start singing birthday song while me, my boss and her husband and another female colleague sat together (we are the January babies) and blow out the single candle on the cake after the song. The cake was finished in no time as it was really tasty.

After the cake, all the people seem to form a group of their own to chit chat. I did not join my boss and male colleague as they are talking about work (so boring) joined by my ex-colleague (that lesbian). Me and wifey then asked another two couples and we play TABOO in another room. This whole thing lasted till about 12 midnight before both couples had to leave. Me and wifey also took the chance to leave with them as the rest outside are really boring talking about work stuff. Me and wifey then took a cab back to Tampines.

Inside the cab, we were talking about my male colleague and his friend. We have many guesses who he was and if they are a couple but at the end of the day, there is no conclusion. Similarly for my ex-colleague who is a lesbian. We too suspected that the gal she brought along is her partner. We felt that it is strange that one person will bring a stranger friend to attend reunion dinner unless that person is super closed. Even for me and wifey, at least wifey came over to my workplace before thus already knew my colleagues. For the other two, they both brought someone who has never come over and that is puzzling. Although we do not have an answer but we roughly knew it and we knew that we are not too far from the guess.

"Thank you wifey for joining me in this dinner."
"I really apperciate a lot for this."
"Ami tomake bhalobashi"
Hubby Roger