Singapore Zoological Garden

22nd February 2009

Am having a date with wifey today to the Singapore Zoological Garden. It has been a long time since wifey visited the zoo and it has been an even longer time for me since my last visit two decades ago. Since wifey was nagging a few days back that I have never dated him to such places, I guess it would be a romantic day to visit the zoo today.

We met early in the morning at Ang Mo Kio. There is a direct bus to the zoo from there. Before we took the bus, we head to Subway for breakfast. The initial plan is to eat at Café Cartel but wifey got it mixed up. There is no Café Cartel, it was New York New York instead. After having our breakfast at Subway we proceed to take the bus to the zoo. It was not crowded and the trip was faster than we expected. By around 1030, we had arrived at the zoo.

In no time, we bought the tickets and went inside. We did not buy the tram tickets as we had planned to walk all the way. We were both excited as it has been such a long time and wifey had always wanted to come to the zoo again. We took our time to walk slowly and enjoy the scenery, as well as the animals. Most of the animals are sleeping in the afternoon, something both me and wifey envy.

We did not catch any feeding time show as we will have to wait a long time. Instead, we went for animal show instead and managed to catch two of the shows. One of them featured the performance of a very intelligent seal. The seal knows how to balance ball on his nose, knows how to clap his flippers and how to impress the audience watching him.

The other show we managed to watch aims to educate audience to protect the nature and the animals. A variety of animals performed together to form a short yet entertaining story. At the end of this show, wifey also managed to take a few pictures of cute fluffy ducks waddling in the water.

One of the animals, or should I say reptile… that catches our attention is the alligator. It is really long in length and huge in size. Most important, the bite-force of the alligator is the strongest amongst other ferocious animals such as shark, bear, wolf, lion and tiger. Seeing the big and terrifying creature swim in the water really gives us a chilling feeling.

We spent about 3 hours plus at the zoo and when it was time to go back, the weather started to drizzle. We continued our way to the bus stop and took the bus back to Ang Mo Kio. We managed to catch a movie before we head for Chinatown.

We went Chinatown because the last time we made-love in Hotel 81, I left the lubricant there accidentally. So now we are heading to Chinatown, Sportsmanasia to buy a new bottle of lube. After that we head back to Tampines. After I sent wifey home, I went back to rest. It was a really happy day to spend time with wifey without any disturbance (phone calls, sms etc)

“Wifey Shaari I Love You”
Hubby Roger

Happy Valentine's Day

14th February 2009

Today is Valentine’s Day. It is supposed to be a romantic day for couples but somehow I am not even sure if I will be spending any moment with wifey. Reason being he is now having his exams and thus need a lot of time to study. Also with his relatives currently moving into his house, the chance to spend time with him alone at his house is minimized.

The only hope he has given me is possible chance in the afternoon whereby his family and relatives could be heading out for a picnic. That will be the only chance for us to spend time alone together in his house.

By around 1.00 pm in the afternoon, I was already impatience of waiting. When wifey called to tell me they might be heading out soon, I quickly head to the shower and get myself ready. Wifey had told me that he will call me before his family and relatives go off but I have other plans. I left home early to head for Bedok without informing wifey. I wanted to buy flowers for wifey and so far Bedok gives the best offer.

When I reached Bedok, the market that sells the flowers is under renovation. There are also other shops that sell flowers but their pricings are very steep. Just imagine, one stalk of lily is five dollars but if you want decoration, one stalk will be at twenty-five dollars. I had the intention to get six stalks of lilies for wifey but I felt that spending one-hundred and fifty dollars on 6 stalks of lilies is silly and I know wifey will agree with me on this.

In the end I went over to wifey’s house without any flowers. His family and relatives went for picnic at around four in the afternoon. When I reached, we kissed and hugged. We really miss each other badly. Although there is no flower, wifey was not upset. He understood that the price for the flowers was not worth it as it was been jet up a lot. The same amount of money spent on flower on Valentine’s Day could let us have at least two nice and decent meals.

In no time, we proceed to his bed room for hot, nasty sex. It started with foreplay of course and lots of kissing and hugging. Am not going to describe what we did here of course. After we made-love, we clean up and rest for a short while. Both of us were tired and hungry. A lot of energy was used during our love-making session. We then proceed to the neighbourhood for dinner. Thereafter, I sent wifey home before I head home to rest.

I am very happy that day. It’s not because I get to make-love with wifey but I get to meet him for a proper dinner. This to me is more important and meaningful than just love-making on special occasions.

“I Love You Wifey Shaari”
“Now & Forever”
Hubby Roger

Happy 18th Anniversary

12th February 2009

Today is my 18th month anniversary with wifey.

18 months ago, I met wifey online in IRC chatroom. I was unhappy and horny while he was upset and horny (that’s what he told me). He had went clubbing and drinking the night before we met to reduce his misery.

When we met, the intention was such sex. We wanted to just vent our unhappiness via physical pleasure. Somehow, it turned out more than what we were seeking. There seem to have a connection between us even before we have sex.

After we have sex, I am still not sure of the feeling I had. It was funny and I never felt like that before even though I was still in a relationship. I just felt different.

Maybe it’s just the sex, I told myself. I wanted to know if it I was right and I hoped I will be wrong about it. I got my wish. It turned out that I kind of fell in love with wifey. Maybe it is because of the unhappiness I am experiencing while I was in that previous relationship. Regardless, I want this relationship with wifey to work and last forever.

We went through a long way before we get together as an official couple. The road was not easy. I almost lost him twice. Once was when I was been forced to choose between him and my ex-bf. The second time was when I thought he cheated on me.

I do not want to lose wifey because I love him very very much.

Happy Anniversary Wifey Shaari
I Love You
with all of my heart
Hubby Roger

p/s: just for the record... I ever peeped at wifey's phone in the past and he put me as 'RogerGoodFuck' in his contact :)